All articles tagged “who to talk to”
Anger: Why we feel it and what can help
November 15, 2022 - Jaylin Bradbury | Anger is a valid signal you were wronged—it's never wrong to feel it. What helps you cool down without taking it out on peo...
Grief and loss: Why we feel them and what can help
November 15, 2022 - Jaylin Bradbury | Harassment makes you grieve real losses, like your time, safety, trust, and plans you had. Why it comes in waves, and what he...
Shock, confusion, and disbelief: Why we feel them and what can help
November 15, 2022 - Jaylin Bradbury | Shock and disbelief are normal, and are often delayed. So go easy, hold off on big decisions, and trust your own memory.
How to navigate a world that’s not just
November 15, 2022 - Jaylin Bradbury | Harassment is a betrayal of the fairness we're promised. Why it shakes your trust, and how telling your story helps you rebui...
How (and why) to build a support network
November 15, 2022 - Aftermetoo | Support from other people really helps. Pick people who listen without taking over, be careful who you tell at work, and don'...
How whisper networks can help keep you safe at work
November 15, 2022 - Aftermetoo | How warning networks fail the newest and most vulnerable people, and how you can use them to protect yourself and others.
How to protect yourself financially
November 15, 2022 - Aftermetoo | Harassment usually costs you money. How to protect yourself whether you stay, report, or quit, starting with getting a lawyer...
Why we blame ourselves and what can help
November 15, 2022 - Aftermetoo | Self-blame is your brain grasping for control, but you didn't cause what happened. How to let go of self-blame.
Depression and sadness: Why we feel them and what can help
November 15, 2022 - Jaylin Bradbury | Sadness eases when you let yourself feel it; depression is treatable and not a life sentence. What helps, and why how you fee...
How to find and work with a lawyer
November 15, 2022 - Aftermetoo | You'll want an employment lawyer. How to find one, keep the cost down by limiting scope, and what a lawyer can and can't do f...
How (and why) to assess your situation
November 15, 2022 - Aftermetoo | Before you act, size up your workplace: does it tolerate harassment, who can you trust there, and what support might exist.
How can I talk with my employer to get them to stop the harassment?
November 15, 2022 - Aftermetoo | Scripts for asking your employer to step in informally—and the catch that raising it at all can trigger a formal investigat...
